Should I stop seeing him?

I have dated a guy 48, with 2 boys, 21 and 19. He is good-hearted. but his house is a totally mess. there are always dishes on the counter, in the sink. washroom is messy. when I offer help for cleaning house, he said he had sore back, do not feel like it. His sons do not help him. they have a dog in the house, dog hair everywhere, even in dishwasher. I am planning to moved in with him, but can not stand their habit of living. should I stop seeing him?

Should I stop seeing him?

Whatever you do...DO NOT MOVE IN.

But my best advice will be this...

Given the fact he is this old, his place always a mess, not to mention the Sons...I do not see a Bright Future.

Unless you want to spend the rest of your life, cleaning here and there, fighting with all 3 of them to keep it clean....etc...etc..///a very Stressfull life...

Just LEAVE HIM..,

Should I stop seeing him?

yes. If you are uncomfortable in his home and he is not willing to help fix ot or to make any changes to make you more comfortable then why would you want to move in with this guy? You better think .............

Should I stop seeing him?

No just clean his house for him if you really love him.

Should I stop seeing him?

yes two reasons you'll never change him and two you'll go nuts

Should I stop seeing him?

JD, only you can decide that one. Think of what YOU like in a home environment, if this is not it, you may want to reevaluate the relationship.

Should I stop seeing him?

No, you love him right

Should I stop seeing him?

Of course not! If you move in with him just shipshape the house a little bit. Love takes compromises, after all.

Should I stop seeing him?

Have all agree before you move in as to who has what duties and will carry them out. These guys need some training or you will have the bad back and be moving out!

Should I stop seeing him?

If you can not stand the living conditions of your boyfriend and his sons (are they in college, if not they need to find a place of their own) and dog.

DON'T DO IT.

DON'T MOVE IN.

YOU ARE NOT HIS MAID. THEY ARE ADULTS AND THEY NEED TO TAKE OF THEMSELVES.

Should I stop seeing him?

Perhaps you should suggest to that he do some of the easy cleaning tasks around his home. If the boys are still living at home, they should help around the house. You could do some of the cleaning, but not all of it. You aren't a maid. They need to appreciate their house before it falls in on their heads. Tell your boyfriend you don't feel comfortable living in a pig sty. Honestly, unless there are other problems in the relationship, I don't see why you would leave him. But, if he won't at least try to keep the house cleaner, then do what you feel is best.

Should I stop seeing him?

No, keep on seeing him. You are not a spring chicken any longer, and guys your age don't come around very often. (Ones with "working" parts anyway)

Question: Are your feet smaller than his??? Have you wondered why?? I can tell you. They are smaller than his so you can get closer to the sink!!! Now get back over there and start cleaning... And get him a damn beer while you are at it!!!! And it wouldn't hurt if you learned how to cook either!!!

Should I stop seeing him?

if your thinking he will change for you, forget it. you will just end up being the maid and will leave when you have had enough.

Should I stop seeing him?

If you already hate the way they live...what make you think you gonna like it later...you are gonna complicate your life for free...

Is that what you want for your life?

Should I stop seeing him?

You want advise from strangers? What do YOU want to do? I haven't met either of you, but the concept of you moving in with him does not sound very promising. If you do move in, you should decide on chores and finances beforehand, otherwise you will be setting yourself up for problems almost immediately. Good luck.

Should I stop seeing him?

if that is the only problem you have, then no way.....but if there are other red flags then yes I would say for me I could not handle it but if he is a wonderful man then of course I would roll up my sleeves and start CLEANING away!!!

Should I stop seeing him?

Of course if you love him by all means move in and get ready to be a fulltime housekeeper.